A Better Date

posted by shalini on Dec 16

If you are still looking for Ms Perfect then by now you must be really tired of waiting and you may even wonder if Ms Perfect who is perfect for you even exist. The point is the Ms Perfect belongs to the silver screen and in your imagination. In reality there is no such thing as Ms Perfect. So now you know why your Ms Perfect has not put in an appearance to date. It’s because she lives only in your mind and your imagination not in real life. Dating with your eyes closed is not a good idea and if you are going to waste time looking for someone who’s in your head then you will make no headway in the dating arena.

Don’t get so involved in your hunt for the perfect one or in dating that you lose sight of the qualities you should be looking for. If you look for things that make the person perfect for you then you will find someone.

It’s good to be confident about what you want but if you feel that no woman can give you what you want then you need to re write your list. First see what you do want then look for someone who will fit the bill the closest. You could be looking for specific qualities or attributes then you may have some attributes where you feel you could accommodate a difference or even a lack of it for some other quality. These are all the things to think about and keep in mind.

It’s an old adage which says that nobody is perfect. Everybody has faults. Some have big faults others have huge faults and yet others have tiny faults with larger than life impact on others around them. Then there are faults you can ignore or just overlook and then there are some faults that simply won’t do even if they belong to Ms beautiful on planet earth itself.

You cannot control any persons thoughts so even if you try your hardest to impress sometimes it may not work. A better option is to pay more attention to your desires and needs and then see how much of those would be fulfilled if you date the woman you are thinking of dating. That might give you more of a chance to find someone close to. That might give you more of a chance to find someone close Ms Perfect or Ms Perfect but perfect only for you.