A Better Date

posted by shalini on Dec 19

It only sounds difficult but it’s not so difficult to meet women and take them out on a date and even take them home to meet your folks. One option is the singles bars and clubs that dot the town or cities. But here , a word of caution, you may not be able to tell the good girls from the bad so be careful and if possible avoid these places.

Women you at work are good as colleagues but here would be very few who you can date. If the date does not turn out okay then you could find working together an awkward situation. A better option is to ask your friends to introduce you to their women friends whom you have not met. They may have cousins or sisters whom you could meet but try and stay out of the blond date scene. In most cases the date does not work out and you end up spending a whole lot of money.

Your club or the social organization you belong to may be a good place to meet women. Here you share a common ground already so conversation is not a problem. You will have seen them interact with others so you have a fair idea of how they conduct themselves and you can get to a know a lot by their body language, their friends circle etc. if you are not part of any group right now then first join something where the interest are well matched with yours. You will find clubs from astrology to zoology so find your first.

Did you know that Sunday church is a good place to meet new women. If there are no single women in the church you go to then find one where there are a lot of single women and join that for some time. A church has enough going on for you to get to know her before you ask her out on a date.

Civic organizations are another good place to start. Women really like men who are civic minded. Or then you could try political campaigns if you are politically inclined. An online dating service is not a bad place to start either. Here you get profiles and chat with potential dates before you actually meet them. When you do find someone please ensure that you meet in the day hours and someplace very public.